I’m going to keep it real with you: I don’t *love* receiving oral sex. I love giving it, and I’ve certainly been with partners who were skilled in that department, but frankly, tongue-to-vulva action has never done it for me. I appreciate the intimacy involved with cunnilingus, but historically, it’s simply been a precursor to penetrative sex, a slippery warm-up for bigger, better climaxes to come, if you get me. The tongue is supposed to be the strongest muscle in the human body, and yet, it never seems to provide the pressure and sensation I need to get off.
My personal take on oral—or, at least, the mechanics of it—might have shifted, though, after trying the new